What Time I Am Nauseous, or, Thoughts on Blogging
Wednesday, April 30th, 2008I tend to be a bit of a grammar freak. Bad grammar, lack of punctuation, mis-capitalization, and any number of other potential linguistic lapses bother me. For that reason, a good deal of blogging - not to mention IMing - can cause me serious consternation. This is a subject I have written on before.
But there is one simple reason I like following grammar’s rules. They are the tools of effective communications. They make combinations of words precise in their meaning, elegant in their style, and effective in message. Rules of grammar are pointless on their own; they exist only as tools of communication.
It is with that in mind that I state, quite truthfully, that I appreciate folks that correct my grammar. But sometimes I get stubborn…and sometimes I think about small stuff WAY too much.
Take my recent post reviewing “Expelled.” In my long-winded introduction, I referred to the movie “Red Dawn” and its negative effect on my gastrointestinal stability. And more than one person noted to me that I used the word “nauseous” when I should have said “nauseated.”
You see, the word “nauseous” to me seems almost onomatopoetic. I can’t say it without feeling the sound go up through my nose and make my sinuses swirl, making it profoundly appropriate for the idea it is attempting to communicate. “Nauseated,” on the other hand, sounds clinical and clean, something you would find on a hospital chart - making it grammatically correct, but inadequate for powerful communication.
Now, I must admit that I first used that word thinking it was correct. It was a grammatical mistake. But now that I know that, I’m stubbornly refusing to change it.
And yet, in spite of my stubbornness, I am bothered by my stance. More people commented on my grammatical gaffe than commented on the content of what I had to say. So this I must ask myself, in the attempt to improve my communication ability: Is my attempt to use the best word distracting from what I’m really trying to say? It seems that blogging would be an excellent chance to use the most compelling word over the most correct one, but communication is about connecting with your audience - am I writing for a bunch of grammar mavens?
Communication can be a strange beast. Ah grammar, how do I love thee?
(Thoughts on good grammar, and critiques of my grammatical structure, are welcomed in the comments section. This rant is brought to you by a very long day in which every creative shred in my being has been taxed to the utmost.)







